On the Magnum: Comedian Rachel Feinstein

by The Stranger

A lesbian has befriended a married lesbian couple. She thinks they’re both hot, and in various light-hearted conversations they said they were open to group sex. But were they serious? Should the caller proposition them?

When a woman was 17, she connected with a 24-year-old man and began a fraught relationship full of sex, drama and sneaking around. She eventually cut things off, convinced that the age difference made it exploitative. He still tries to contact her now and again. How bad was this, and how can she get him out of her head?

This week’s guest is comedian Rachel Feinstein. Her upcoming Netflix comedy special Big Guy is not to be missed. Now, let’s talk about tea bagging. Sure, you know what it means. But who is the “tea-bagger?” The one with the mouth, or the one with the balls? Unsurprisingly, this conversation raises more questions than it answers.

These two get super-real with each other, spelling out the stories of their first sexual encounters. Dan’s first-time story has a detail that even shocked Nancy … you’ll just have to listen. The first eight minutes are on the Micro, and the whole raucous thing is on the Magnum.

Finally, we all deal with grief in different ways. This poor man lost a dear friend, and he consoles himself with frequent masturbation. Is this healthy? Is it ok?

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The City of Lacey used federal housing dollars and local transportation dollars to build a massive police training facility. The place is much smaller than Atlanta’s cop city—more of a cop village, I guess—but protests broke out in February, and locals remain concerned about transparency and priorities.

by Kylin Brown

As cops crack down on protesters across the country, concerns about militarized policing strategies continue to mount. The “Stop Cop City” movement, which grew from a three-year blockade of a massive police training facility near Atlanta, has emerged nationwide as one response to the issue. Signs of this movement’s spread can be seen via stickers embellishing Seattle stop signs and, more unusually, at recent protests in the small city of Lacey, WA, where the town recently broke ground on a new police station and regional training facility. 

But is the facility in Lacey really a “cop city”? And for those opposed to expanding the police state, is it to stop it?

STOP COP CITY

On February 5, thirty protesters showed up at the groundbreaking ceremony for Lacey’s long-planned police station due to the casual addition of an entirely separate regional training facility building. 

As city council members and police donned symbolic hard hats and shovels for a photo op, demonstrators shattered the staged scene with chants of, “No cops; no prisons! Total abolition!” Some wielded signs that read, “STOP COP CITY,” while other signs read, “Fund housing, not police,” indicating dissonance between the City’s priorities and the public’s.

Thurston County Sheriff Derek Sanders said that the protests were too little, too late. “It’s a little late once we start putting shovels in the ground,” he told KING 5 News.

Lacey’s new police station has been publicly discussed in city council meetings and in other forums since 2019. Citing Lacey’s growing population and limitations to the current police station building, the City says that it lacks the space to accommodate its predicted needs.

But the opportunity for Lacey to host a regional police hub first arose at a Thurston County Regional Coalition work session, said Lacey Mayor Andy Ryder. “I remember having a conversation at one of our work sessions over this, and I remember the chief bringing up the idea of having this training facility [in Lacey] and immediately my ears perked up,” he said. 

In early 2022, the council approved a memorandum of understanding with St. Martin’s Abbey to allow the City to acquire 12 acres of forested property for the project. That agreement describes a police station, emergency management operations, and, finally, a police training center.

The spot. City of Lacey

Final project specs show the police station nestled in the hillside of the property, rising two stories and spanning 48,600 square feet. The 15,000-square-foot training center will be standalone so that the station can accommodate more space for things like evidence storage and confidential interviews, in addition to offering a “more welcoming” lobby. 

Inside, the training building will house an eight-lane firing range, an armory with gun-cleaning facilities, shell and site work training space, a digital training simulation room, defensive tactics training, and a large classroom for multipurpose use.

A look inside the proposed training facility. City of Lacey 

In recent meetings, local lawmakers say the training center would contribute to better training and collaboration between law enforcement in the region. They also think the development of both the new police station and the training facility will generate new jobs and help address western WA’s proported police shortage.

The “Cop City” Comparison 

Including the $4 million land purchase, design, construction, and other costs, the City pegs the price tag for both facilities at $61.5 million. By comparison, the Atlanta Public Safety Training Center is shaping up to be much larger, spanning 85 acres in the middle of the Weelaunee Forest—the largest green space in the Atlanta area—and costing a whopping $109.65 million. That facility also includes “an explosives testing area, over twelve firing ranges, a Black Hawk helicopter landing pad, a training center to practice crowd control, a driving course for police to practice chases, and a ‘mock village’ with a hotel/nightclub and convenience store,” according to the Boston Review

Lacey Council Member Lenny Greenstein said he hopes the City can offset some of the operations costs through partnerships with other agencies from across the region, including the Washington State Patrol, the Thurston County Sheriff’s Office, and neighboring cities “who are clearly going to want to use this facility because there is nothing like it in the area.”

Public Concerns about Transparency and Priorities

The City plans to use a mix of bonds and general fund reserves to pay for the project, a funding strategy that, incidentally, allowed them to move forward without needing a public vote. Beyond city council meetings, the use of that strategy meant the training center’s funding approval process did not need to be communicated to the public, a fact that became a large point of contention for the community members who oppose the facility today.

Local grassroots organizer Greg Urquhart said he is one of many locals who believes the City’s funding strategy intentionally excluded public involvement to avoid “any potential speed bumps” on the path to construction. 

“It looks like they passed this right before Christmas, when nobody was available to go to their city council meeting,” he said, referring to Lacey’s Dec 21, 2023 city council meeting. Only two city employees attended the meeting at the time of the approval.

Not exactly filled to capacity for the cop city funding vote. City of Lacey

As evidenced by recordings throughout the process, Lacey City Council meetings have seen a sharp decrease in public participation overall throughout the pandemic. Pre-pandemic, when the public opposed something, they sat in the front row with large signs and returned repeatedly to speak on the matter. Throughout 2023, dust gathered on the public’s seats as city officials indulged in their dreams of making Lacey a hub for law enforcement from across the region.

Bunchy Carter, minister of defense for the Washington chapter of the Black Panther Party, said a lack of transparency has fueled public distrust. 

“Being more transparent and forthcoming with information is a must, and they’ve done everything but that in this particular situation. I would hope that they understand that that’s part of the reason why people feel the way they feel,” he said.

The Black Panther Party of Washington is only “peripherally involved” with the issue at this time as they await the full details about the training facility’s features, which continue to be sparsely communicated to the public. 

“We already have a troubling trend of people who are having mental health crises, who are being killed by the police because the police aren’t trained to deal with that,” he said. “Now they will have this facility to increase the degree of training that is being given, and I don’t know that that’s going to be training in de-escalation. I don’t know if that’s going to be training for dealing with mental health crises.”

When The Stranger spoke to Carter, the Lacey website had yet to add that the facility will also provide “spaces for mental health and homeless outreach professionals” and “training areas for continuing to enhance de-escalation techniques,” which it lists today. 

Urquhart also brought into question the City’s use of $6.8 million in COVID relief funds that were previously set aside for permanent supportive housing. As an Indigenous activist and founder of two grassroots organizations, Red Road Rising and South Sound Street Medics, Urquhart has connections to Lacey’s most vulnerable populations, including unhoused people. 

Somewhat ironically, in using those federal housing dollars to help fund the training facility, they contributed to displacement, Urquhart said. Carter affirmed this comment, saying that about 20 people living in the construction area, which is just off of I-5, to whom the Party was providing mutual aid can no longer be found.

Another large chunk of funding for the project comes from the City’s general fund reserves, specifically its arterial street fund reserves. Sounds like investments in roads and permanent supportive housing will have to take a backseat for now. 

When asked for comment, the City of Lacey and the Lacey Police Department declined to speak about the training center at this time.

As for the claims that the facility is basically a “Cop City” for western WA, Urquhart and Carter see both similarities and differences when compared to the life-threatening situation in Atlanta. 

For Carter, a second-generation Panther, the greatest concern is that the Lacey facility will give police a place to centralize scores of heavily armed officers to deploy in times of civil unrest, an evermore frequent sight in this present moment in history. “This is absolutely an opportunity to further militarize the police,” he said. 

Urquhart, who is a military veteran, cautions that “a Cop City is not going to help us out in any way, shape or form. Increasing law enforcement just doesn’t work like that.”

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The Stranger’s morning news roundup.

by Ashley Nerbovig

Drizzle, drizzle: Good morning, and hoods up. The National Weather Service predicts 100% chance of precipitation. Plus it’s going to be a little windy today, with gusts of up to 22 miles per hour.  

New lawsuit launched against Seattle Police Department: Another SPD higher-up who applied for the position of Chief of Police has filed a complaint against the person who got the top job, Chief of Police Adrian Diaz, according to KUOW. Seattle Police Captain Eric Greening says Diaz has discriminated against women and people of color at the department. Previously, another candidate for chief, Captain Deanna Nollette, also filed a lawsuit alleging gender discrimination

Beaches to close early this summer: As a way to cut down on criminal activity, the Seattle Parks and Recreation and Seattle Police Department say they plan to close Golden Gardens and Alki Beach at 10:30 pm this summer as opposed to 11:30 pm. People can submit their thoughts on the plan to make the beaches more deserted later at night as part of a crime prevention strategy. I think it’s dumb and just a way for cops to hassle more people who happened to be at the beach at 11:30 pm. 

Bumbershoot line-up drops: “This morning Bumbershoot organizers announced this year’s long-awaited music lineup and headliners include beloved indie rockers Pavement, Beyoncé bestie James Blake, electronic music goofball Marc Rebillet, Australian rock and roller Courtney Barnett, and the best part of Sonic Youth aka Kim Gordon,” Megan writes. Read more

The recusal of Tanya Woo: The executive director of Seattle Ethics and Elections told appointed City Council Member Tanya Woo she should not vote on the rollback of the City’s minimum wage ordinance for gig workers, because her father-in-law owns a restaurant that uses app-based delivery drivers. Hannah broke the news yesterday. In an email, Woo wrote that the business has “seen a reduction in smaller dollar orders since the minimum payment ordinance became effective in January of this year.” After the executive director told Woo not to vote, she said she wanted a second opinion, meaning she wants someone, anyone, to tell her she can vote on the law. Seems kind of like something someone would do if they had a vested interest in the outcome of the vote. 

One of the troubles with appointing a business stooge, they’ve all got connections to business https://t.co/VLD6NS8MpN

— Ashley Nerbovig (@AshleyNerbovig) May 20, 2024

King County Metro ridership on the rise: Metro operation rose last year to 83% of what it was in 2019, prior to the pandemic. Metro briefed the King County Council last week on its work to reach 100% of planned service, which fell significantly during the pandemic, according to Seattle Transit Blog. A labor shortage and vehicle reliability have caused issues for Metro returning to pre-pandemic operation levels.

Take a bus to the mountains this weekend: This weekend looks nice a mild for the relaunch of King County Metro’s Trailhead Direct, which begins on May 25. The bus service shuttles people out to the mountains all summer, and this year they’re bringing back the lines out to the “Issaquah Alps,” which includes stops at “Margaret’s Way, Squak Mountain, Chirico Trail-Poo Poo Point, High School trail and East Sunset Way.” That route starts at the Mount Baker Station. As ever, you’ll be able to pick up a bus to Mount Si, Mount Teneriffe, and Little Si from the Capitol Hill Station. 

You see that boat? God, sometimes I love West Seattle BlogA tall ship called the Lady Washington passed by West Seattle yesterday and someone caught a photo of it. The boat docked in Tacoma, where people can hop aboard for a short sail or a docked tour. 

Missing plane found: Recovery crews have located a small plane that went missing after taking off from Arlington airport Sunday. The Washington State Department of Transportation said it found wreckage of the plane just west of Snoqualmie Pass, according to KIRO 7. Authorities found the plane’s pilot and only passenger, 69-year-old Jerry Reidinger, dead inside the plane.

Unified reich: Former president Donald Trump’s campaign posted a video with a reference to a “unified reich.” A campaign staffer said the campaign did not create the video, just reshared it after a user online posted it. The line from the campaign might be more believable from a candidate who hadn’t once said Hitler did “a lot of good things.”

Speaking of Trump: His fraud trial continued Monday with witness Robert Costello, who groaned a bunch on the witness stand and at one point said “jeez” after the judge sustained multiple objections from prosecutors, according to the BBC. The judge ended up clearing the courtroom just to yell at Costello. The defense rested its case, with Trump not testifying. 

Call me a craving not a crush: I read one review of Billie Eilish’s new album, “Hit me Hard and Soft” that described the songs as luxurious, and I agree. Eilish’s music has always had an almost decadent vibe to it. Enjoy Lunch!

 

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Bumbershoot’s full music lineup is finally here!

by Megan Seling

It’s finally here. This morning Bumbershoot organizers announced this year’s long-awaited music lineup and headliners include beloved indie rockers Pavement, Beyoncé bestie James Blake, electronic music goofball Marc Rebillet, Australian rock and roller Courtney Barnett, and the best part of Sonic Youth aka Kim Gordon.

The Pacific Northwest is well represented, too, with Black Belt Eagle Scout, Tres Leches, Acid Tongue, the Divorce, Lemon Boy, Linda from Work, and Flesh Produce aka Fleshy P, a band I’ve wanted to see since Stranger contributor Kevin Diers described their 2023 Capitol Hill Block party set as a “furious thunderstorm of breakneck glitch pop gone hardcore with some nu-metal flavor.” Yes, please!

Here’s the full music lineup, in alphabetical order:

Acid Tongue, All Them Witches, Aly & AJ, Angélica Garcia, Automatic, BADBADNOTGOOD, Balthvs, Black Belt Eagle Scout, Carl Cox, Corridor, Courtney Barnett, Cunningham / Bird, Cypress Hill, Dean Johnson, Disq, Emi Pop, Flesh Produce, Freddie Gibbs, George Clanton, Gold Chisme, Grynch, Helado Negro, Hurray for the Riff Raff, I Dont Know How But They Found Me, James Blake, k.flay, Kassa Overall, Kim Gordon, King Buffalo, Kultur Shock, Kurt Vile & The Violators, Ladytron, Lauren Mayberry, Lee Fields, Lemon Boy, Linda from Work, Lol Tolhurst x Budgie, Marc Rebillet, Me First and the Gimme Gimmes, Mercury Rev, Moor Mother, NAVVI, Neal Francis, Oh, Rose, Parisalexa, Pavement, Pink Siifu, Pom Pom Squad, Psymon Spine, Pure Bathing Culture, R E P O S A D O, Rocket, Spoon Benders, Squirrel Flower, St Paul and the Broken Bones, Stephanie Anne Johnson, Sux, Ted Leo and the Pharmacists, TEKE::TEKE, The Divorce, The Groovy Nobody, The Polyphonic Spree, Thee Sacred Souls, TK & The Holy Know-Nothings, Tres Leches, Warren Dunes.

Not bad at all! 

The weekend will also feature immersive art exhibits and performances beyond music. The Recess District will host roller skating, breakdancing, cheerleading, a skateboard competition, and the Bumbermania! wrestling showcase (which was a surprising personal highlight last year), the Fashion District will showcase local designers with runway shows, hair and nail art, and vendors, and the Geodesic Domes will be back with the popular cat circus, pole dancing, and comedy curated by The Stranger’s Undisputable Genius of Comedy Dan Hurwitz.

Like last year, tickets are (relatively) cheap. Or cheaper, at least. Single-day tickets are $70 and weekend passes are $125 at bumbershoot.com. (Children 10 and under are free, but still require a ticket.) Not a bad deal considering a single day for Capitol Hill Block Party is currently going for $105 and Day In Day Out is $130, though Bumbershoot’s prices will increase June 21.

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See someone? Say something!

by Anonymous

girl in the old white volvo on denny way

you looked over at me in my little smart car and your mouth dropped open, so naturally i made the same face at u. it was really funny. i hope ur well

To the anarchist with the face tattoo on the train back from the protest

How’s your praxis? Because I think we could be more than just a theory 😉

Free Glass of Wine at Base

I’ve only dated men but was excited by the possibility we were flirting. The gizmo wasn’t working so the wine was free. Did u see aurora brls?

Eating Garlic Bread in the park

Super cute trans guy I made eye contact with at the grill in the hat and denim overshirt. I was wearing the army shirt helping with the event.

Lynnwood AMC

We met waiting for our turn for the bathroom. You were seeing IF and I, the new Strangers. I wish we could have talked more!

Tin Hat between Woodland sets

Talked about microwaved fish + discount grocery stores. My 3 drinks made me too sleepy to wait until you came back, but u made me smile.

Redhead at Belle and Sebastian

I’m the tall guy with the chin length hair dancing on stage you were in row F (?). I appreciate you were one of the first to get up and dance.

Picture perfect picture window

You were in the house next to the house party 6 years ago. I invited you to play beer pong and then left town 5 days later. I just moved back. Coffee?

Is it a match? Leave a comment here or on our Instagram post to connect! 

Did you see someone? Say something! Submit your own I Saw U message here and maybe we’ll include it in the next roundup!

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