Big gay cities like ours change, and so do their gayborhoods.

by Rich Smith

Seattle’s gayborhood, located on Capitol Hill spiritually if increasingly less so demographically, certainly isn’t what it used to be in the early 2010s, which wasn’t what it used to be in the early ‘00s, which definitely wasn’t what it used to be in the ‘90s, or the ‘80s, or the ‘70s. And before that, the gayborhood wasn’t even on Capitol Hill! It was in Pioneer Square. And how dare we forget about the lesbians of the University District in the ‘70s–we’d never, and we won’t start now!

The point is that big gay cities like ours change, and so do their gayborhoods. Rather than dwell on its past for the 50th anniversary of Seattle Pride, this year I wanted help envisioning its future. So I asked five bright brains with connections to the neighborhood to look into their crystal balls. Please allow me to introduce them.

Andrew Grant Houston is an architect and urban designer who runs House Cosmopolitan, an innovative architecture and design firm. Joey Burgess runs many of the Hill’s growing and foundational institutions, including The Cuff Complex, Queer/Bar, Grims, and Elliott Bay Book Company. Among many other things, Cynthia Brothers founded Vanishing Seattle, a media project that documents the city’s fading cultural institutions. Manish Chalana is an associate professor in the University of Washington’s Urban Design and Planning department. Yes Segura founded Smash the Box, an urban planning and design firm.

The Seattle Times reports that the LGBTQ+ population of Seattle is dropping but still pretty strong–do you think Capitol Hill will still be seen as the gayborhood in 2074? If not, where do you think the next one will be?

Andrew Grant Houston: Yes, unless by an act of God we all become rich and join the rest of the homo homeowners who are building up some cool communities in the South End and White Center. Symbolically, Capitol Hill will always be the gayborhood, but if we want to ensure the neighborhood stays queer in truth and not just in name, then we need to provide more housing options for people in all walks of life—especially those who are a part of our nightlife community. The dual-income dog daddies and the badass enby bartenders both deserve to live here in housing that works for their lifestyles and budgets.

Joey Burgess: I think the Hill will forever be the queer bedrock of Seattle. In a perfect Seattle, though, every neighborhood would have queer bars. Imagine a bunch of queer waterholes becoming as common as your neighborhood corner store–that would be a dreamy future.

Cynthia Brothers: As much as I would love for Capitol Hill to retain a strong, unapologetically queer character, based on the way things have been going I think there’s a huge risk that queer residents, businesses, and cultural and subversive spaces could be displaced to cater to more hetero, mainstream, and economically dominant tastes by 50 years or much earlier … unless there’s some political and financial interventions from City leaders to supplement the efforts of the LGBTQ+ community to maintain their presence. Rainbow crosswalks may last 50 years, but if queer culture isn’t embedded in the neighborhood anymore, they’ll be more a memorial than an affirmation.

Manish Chalana: Seattle’s gayborhood has shifted from Pioneer Square to Denny Triangle and then to Capitol Hill, so another move isn’t out of the question. However, Capitol Hill now feels deeply established. While multiple queer districts are likely to emerge (as they already are), Capitol Hill will remain the mothership.

Yes Segura: Give me a second as I scream this into the void: RENT SHOULD NOT BE THIS HIGH! Looking at how America has treated queer landmarks like Stonewall … No, I don’t think Capitol Hill will be the queerborhood then. But, at the same time, I like to think that by then everyone will realize that they are queer.

Do you think the Hill will still serve as the center of the city’s nightlife in 50 years? Which venues, shops, and restaurants do you think will still be around?

AGH: I hope we’re not! Yes, gay clubs play great music, but I’d love to see some more clubs across Seattle because density for housing is great but for dancefloors it is not. As for other spaces, what I hope will be around here again is a big gay coffee shop. Losing both Gaybucks (I know) and Kaladi means we don’t have a larger community gathering space the way we used to.

JB: Out of all the businesses on the Hill … I hope to see The Wildrose open, alive, and thriving when I’m 91. I hope that my husband and I can take our 54 and 52-year-old daughters to Taco Tuesday and play some Indigo Girls on a vinyl jukebox. Maybe after we can head over to Elliott Bay Books and toast to its 100-year anniversary?  Fingers crossed.      

CB: I think as long as Capitol Hill continues to attract a mix of younger folks, bars, restaurants, and businesses, then it will be a nightlife “hot spot”—for better or worse. The question is what that nightlife will look like, and who it is for. It’s wild to think that Neumos is one of a very small handful of live music venues left in an area once teeming with clubs and musicians (so I’m guessing Neumos, as a heavy-hitter, will still be around). I’d be happy to see longtime legendary places like Wildrose, Pony, Neighbours, The Eagle, Club Z, Harry’s Bar, The Crescent Lounge, Madison Pub, The Mercury, City Market, CC’s, Century Ballroom, Trendy Wendy, Elliott Bay, and DeLuxe still around. Plus, it’s heartening to see new clubs like Massive resurface/reclaim space (RIP R Place). Also, more gloryholes, please. A Seattle without gloryholes is certainly not one I want to live in.

MC: Yes, mostly, but other neighborhoods will continue to become “more gay.” West Seattle and White Center will be in full competition by then. I mostly hang out in Diesel and CC’s, so I hope they’ll still be around. But honestly, I bet it’ll be Club Z—that place seems like it could survive Armageddon!

YS: For sure the Hill will be the center of nightlife in 50 years–as long as it continues with the density of its restaurants, bars, and its Arts District. Honestly I would like for all of these places to still be up, though what the neighborhood needs is more local Queer Transgender + BIPOC-owned spaces. PERIOD.

Do you think the housing will be denser, or abandoned, or pretty much look the same as it does now?

AGH: Definitely denser. I expect a high-rise tower or two next to the current light-rail station, though hopefully in less monochrome motifs. I’d also love to see a balance of building heights and public space akin to another global gayborhood, Le Marais. There, public cruising–aka walking around at all hours of the day and night–is prioritized over space for cars.

JB: Hopefully much denser, with residential and commercial rent control in place.

CB: I’d guess denser; doesn’t seem like it’s been slowing down in the last 20 years.

MC: Denser, probably; affordable, probably not. Sure, US cities experienced a big population decline once, as they went through deindustrialization and suburbanization. But my money is safe betting on a city like Seattle to keep on growing in the long term. And if the city’s growing, then the inner core is growing in all but the weirdest of times. And who knows—by then maybe there’ll even be a second light rail station in Capitol Hill.

YS: How we assess the value of property needs to be dismantled. I’ll leave it at that.

Do you think Pike/Pine will ever become pedestrianized, like a Barcelona-style superblock? Do you think it should be?

AGH: Yes and yes. One motto to keep in mind in Seattle is “never say never:” whether by organizing or a fluke, some changes in the city happen when you least expect. Funnily enough, as part of the comprehensive plan the City has to create a subarea plan for Capitol Hill/First Hill, which will be an opportunity in the next year to push for the superblock to happen.

JB: In a dreamworld this would be heavenly. I believe a new generation of leadership in local politics might be up for this challenge one day in the not-so-distant future.

CB: I can see urban planners here trying to jump on that. Hopefully not implementing them in a way that would exacerbate gentrification and already stark income divides, which is one of the criticisms of superblocks.

MC: Not Barcelona-style superblock morphology per se, but Pike/Pine’s emerging urban form could strive to embrace principles of superblock planning, emphasizing livability shaped not just by density, safety, and walkability, but also by equity and social justice.

YS: We should pedestrianize Pike/Pine, but we should also pedestrianize the same Cap Hill pocket areas that temporarily close off streets for events. For example, On the Block: 2nd Saturdays closes off 11th Avenue and E. Pike Street/E. Pine Street. CLOSE IT OFF. Capitol Hill Pride closes off Broadway from Roy to John. CLOSE IT OFF. There are many more examples in the neighborhood. This outdated mindset that we must have cars on every street is one that is draconian and degrades society’s health. Other countries have figured it out, why can’t we?

Today I still occasionally see the jester skipping through the streets, the colorful wizard on walks, and Mohammad walking the streets selling his bundle of roses. What sort of characters do you imagine on the streets of Capitol Hill in 2074?

AGH: These three are icons, so it’s hard to guess, but our next characters will also be unique. I could imagine a bear furry that sells smoked salmon, a daylight drag queen doing impromptu numbers on street corners, or someone moonwalking up Broadway in a spacesuit. In short, they’ll be queer and out of this world.

JB: I imagine Bosco will be occasionally spotted in the corridor looking forever young and forever gorgeous, living by the words of Lisle Von Rhuman, “This is life’s ultimate cruelty. It offers us a taste of youth and vitality, and then it makes us witness our own decay.”

CB: I love the Skipping Jestress and Mohammed! Those sightings make me happy. In 2074 Capitol Hill, there might be some kooky “characters” that are actually AI-generated hologram personas reciting the classifieds of The Stranger issues from the 1990s. But if it was a hologram of Slats, Mama Tits, or Lady Krishna, I could get into it.

MC: Crazy fringe people who dare to explore the urban fabric in front of them instead of keeping their cerebrally implanted iPhone 669s on all of the time. Someone without any tattoos? Community robots in rainbow underwear doubling as traffic police?

YS: I imagine by then we will have flying cars that will help us crusty elder millennials to be out and about. Those free-spirited characters will both be in their flying cars and down on earth being themselves. For real though, where are our flying cars?!

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Not Every Queer Politician Is an “Ally”

by Hannah Krieg

The Stranger will go on the record saying we love gay people. We love being gay people, being friends with gay people, dating gay people, and, heck, we even love electing gay people!

But none of that stops us from critiquing Seattle’s first lesbian Mayor for tear-gassing the gayborhood during Pride Month, and we certainly don’t want to see the likes of former Mayor Ed Murray creeping back into the halls of power.

Just like straight elected officials, LGBTQ elected officials can sometimes slay, sometimes betray, and–when you take off your rainbow-tinted glasses–sometimes they wind up somewhere in the gray. Let’s take a quick little look-see at some primary examples.

Slay 🙂

Let’s start with the positive–it is Pride Month, after all.

Every single member of the current Washington State Legislative LGBTQ+ Caucus has slayed a time or two, and every year they all spearhead and/or support bills to improve and protect our civil rights. Yes, even Sen. Jamie Pedersen *grumble grumble*. But some slays have been more major than others.

Wayyyyy back in 2011, Pedersen passed a bill legalizing and regulating surrogacy, opening up opportunities for queer people looking to become parents. He also carried the gay marriage bill for years before its passage. More recently, he helped repeal antiquated “lewd conduct” rules to free the nipple near booze in gay clubs and in strip clubs.

Sen. Claire Wilson championed the Comprehensive Sex Ed bill in 2019 and sponsored legislation to establish the Washington State LGBTQ Commission, ensuring that queer people have a seat at every table. That same year, Sen. Marko Liias passed a bill codifying a bunch of best practices related to student records, privacy, and restroom access for trans kids. Last year, Liias also staunchly supported and defended legislation to protect trans runaways.

In 2024, Sen. Emily Randall passed a bill to ensure that religious hospital mergers and acquisitions do not restrict access to reproductive and gender-affirming care.

Beyond more obvious wins for the girls, the gays, and the theys, some legislators also understand that queer and trans people suffer under wealth inequality. Rep. Laurie Jinkins sponsored a capital gains tax every year from 2012 until it finally passed. Rep. Nicole Macri fights hard against the landlord lobby to protect renters from gouging. And Rep. Beth Doglio state house has to approve a really neat bill to give striking workers unemployment insurance benefits.

Gray :/

Jax Ko

But representation is not a magic pill to get all the policies that queer people want, partially because queer people are not a monolith of blue-haired baristas like the internet would have you believe.

Sometimes LGBTQ politicians feel the pressure to conform to the moderate status quo because they face more scrutiny than straight peers. And sometimes, politicians of all sexualities just suck.

Queer communities demanded that the State Legislature pass rent control this session, but Sen. Pedersen decided to ride the fence instead of taking a strong stand with the progressive, working-class gays. When cops put gay nightlife under attack because of prudish laws around nudity and alcohol, Jinkins, the first lesbian Speaker of the House, didn’t do much speaking to the press! Citing her public health background, she reportedly objected to the bill due to concerns over the expansion of alcohol licenses. She eventually voted the right way, but queer people, strippers, and queer strippers deserved a stronger advocate in Jinkins.

Some have betrayed the gays in more subtle ways. For example, Liias floated a bad car tabs “fix” in 2020 that would have slashed more than a $1 billion in transit funding. LGBTQ+ people need reliable public transit! They can’t drive! Or at least I am a queer person who can’t. Luckily for us all, the proposal never landed.

Betray >:(

Jax Ko

Of course, those weak moments from the caucus sorta pale in comparison to the shit gay Republicans and mayors have gotten up to.

When he was in the State Legislature, Republican James West, who chaired committees and served for a year as Senate Majority Leader, voted against gay rights bills and supported anti-gay bills. He later became Mayor of Spokane, but he lost the gig over a gay sex scandal in 2006. Bruh.

On the other side of the mountains, Seattle Mayor Jenny Durkan totally eroded public trust by allegedly dropping her phone into a tide pool, destroying text messages that could have revealed critical information about her horrendous handling of the CHOP in 2020. But she’s somehow less disgraceful than Murray, who left his position as Mayor in 2017 after being outed as an alleged child sex abuser, allegations he denies.

As much as The Stranger would love to see more gay, lesbian, trans, and bisexual women with boyfriends in the halls of power, we understand that we shouldn’t elect just anyone with pronouns in their bio. Some queer people have shit opinions. Some queer people have great opinions. And, of course, no person–much less a politician under the crushing pressure of their donors and the institutions themselves–is perfect. But Rep. Macri comes pretty close. ν

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That Stranger article gives an incomplete impression of who I am in large part because of how I represented who I was when Herzog interviewed me.

by Ky Schevers

Originally published in Reclaiming Trans.

Back when I was still a detrans woman, I was interviewed a few times by journalists for articles on detransitioning. An article in The Stranger written by Katie Herzog drew the most attention and the strongest reactions. Many trans people and their allies found the article offensive and transphobic, and they reacted to it in outrage. Many also wrote critical responses.

That Stranger article gives an incomplete impression of who I am in large part because of how I represented who I was when Herzog interviewed me. Now I want to uncover the parts of my life that I kept hidden at the time, and to discuss the deception I was engaging in but unaware of.

In doing so I do not mean to excuse my actions or argue that my lack of awareness made them any less harmful. I believe it’s important for people to know my state of mind; I was more a cult member than a con artist.

In the months before the interview, there were many signs that my detransition wasn’t working out, but I was keeping all of that almost entirely to myself. I’d been living as a detrans woman and using “alternative treatments” to cope with dysphoria for around four years at that point. When I look back on my journals from that time, I find myself talking about how I still had trouble relating to my female body; it still felt weird, and I felt uncomfortable with my breasts and reproductive parts in particular. I could accept that I had those body parts, but it took work to do so, and I didn’t feel especially positive about them or connected to them. I also talked about wanting a cock and how that seemed more appealing than having a cunt. In one journal entry, I wrote that I still wanted a male body on some level and “[i]f I woke up with a male body, I think I’d be ok with that as long as it wasn’t radically different, just the male version of my current body.”

I wrote about how I still felt like a dude sometimes, like a kind of “female man.” I talked about how I “became a woman” when I detransitioned and about how much work that involved.

I wrote about how I found myself wishing that I had gotten more out of detransitioning than I actually did, how I had wanted it to fix more problems in my life.

I talked about how “I made myself into a lesbian feminist,” how I had really wanted learning to accept myself as a woman to heal me and make me whole, and it just hadn’t lived up to my expectations. Some of it helped me heal from past trauma, but not as much I was hoping it would, and I felt let down.

I talked about how hard and stressful it was to live as a woman. I was beginning to question both my motives for detransitioning and just how much it had helped me.

I wrote about how both my detransition and conversion to radical feminism now looked like they were at least partially a response to conflict and trauma I had experienced in a radical queer collective house I used to live in. I talked about how I had joined the radical feminist community because of how I’d been hurt in the radical queer community. I’d been looking for a better, safer place to belong. That’s not what I’d found, not at all. In fact, I found the same kind of hurtful behavior and abusive people in the radical feminist scene.

I still had a very critical view of transitioning and tended to see trans identity as a response to living in patriarchy, but I was growing increasingly frustrated with the way most radical feminists viewed trans people and transitioning. I was questioning more and developing my own views based on my experiences and research into the history of trans people and medical transition. I was fed up with how cruel many radical feminists were towards trans people, how they talked about transitioned bodies with disgust, and how so many of them treated trans people as if they were freakish and inferior. I was opening up to the idea that for some people being trans was the most authentic way to exist in this present society, and that transitioning actually helped some people, though I still worried a lot about people being pushed to transition or to identify as trans.

This thinking marked a big shift for someone who had previously believed that all trans identity was a harmful coping mechanism, and that transition was inherently harmful, a person who wanted to stop as many people as possible from transitioning and to encourage people to detransition or desist. I didn’t get to believing in transphobic ideology all at once, and I couldn’t disengage from it all at once, either. It was a long process that took years to fully unfold.

At the time, I was conducting research for a book on “female gender dysphoria” that I was planning to write. I wanted to talk about gender dysphoria in female-assigned people as a result of life under patriarchy and discuss the different ways people managed this dysphoria.

When I began my research, I saw both medical transition and radical feminism as ways to respond to “female gender dysphoria,” the first being contaminated by false consciousness while the latter got to the true root of the problem.

My views ended up shifting dramatically over the course of my research. What I learned about the history of trans peoples’ interactions with medical professionals ended up challenging a lot of my beliefs, but initially I twisted what I read to fit my pre-existing theories and eagerly shared my “findings” with others, offering up “proof” to back up the radical feminist interpretation of transmasculinity and transition.

It was hard for me to totally break free from radical feminist ideology, in large part because of the kind of people I was spending most of my time with. During that period of my life, I lived in the East Bay, where I participated in a community of transphobic radical feminist lesbians, a few of whom were also detrans or re-identified. I was dating and living with a member of this community.

While hanging out among ourselves, the other younger members of this scene and I would jokingly refer to ourselves and to each other as “TERFs”, reclaiming a word we viewed as a slur. Many of us got a kick out of having a secret life in a subculture outsiders (correctly) viewed as a hate group.

We thought such people were ridiculous and misogynistic for seeing us as hateful, and we frequently mocked them, acting as if they were ignorant, misled and/or overly sensitive. We would gather at a lesbian-owned coffee shop and complain about how trans activists were a threat to lesbian culture, talk about dangerous and disgusting “autogynephiles” trying to infiltrate “female-only” spaces, and the social forces supposedly pushing lesbians to “dis-identify from femaleness” and identify as trans.

Generally, we were much more sympathetic towards transmasculine people than we were towards transfeminine people. We were especially harsh and hateful towards trans lesbians and other transfeminine people who were attracted to women. We also hung out with older lesbians, who were happy to find younger dykes who shared their particular transphobic interpretation of lesbian feminism. I recall one of these older women talking about how Big Pharma was funding the trans movement and tricking butch dykes, femmy gay men, and other gender nonconforming people into transitioning.

I had made the choice to move to a city with a radical lesbian feminist subculture and attempted to live up to my separatist views and values. I spent years working with other women to build the detransitioned women’s community and had become an influential detrans writer and activist. One of my essays had been published in an anti-trans anthology called Female Erasure, alongside influential transphobic thinkers such as Cathy Brennen, Sheila Jeffreys, Leirre Keith, Jennifer Bilek, and Gallus Mag.

I had plunged into the life I thought I wanted, but it didn’t seem to be working. Nevertheless, I kept my doubts, questions, and disillusionment hidden inside my head and in my journals. In private, I wrote out my criticisms and disillusionment with radical feminism, but among my friends I still voiced the same concerns about trans people, and I still made the same arguments. I went back and forth between acknowledging that my detransition hadn’t really worked and struggling to make it work. I switched back and forth between recognizing that I still found much in common with trans men to writing out all the reasons I couldn’t identify as trans. I tried to treat my dysphoria using the methods I’d promoted for years, doing my best to “accept myself as a woman” because I couldn’t see how I could give it up at this point. My consciousness was fractured into the parts that knew the truth and the parts that still wanted to uphold the ideology I’d bought into. There was the persona I’d created–that of a detransitioned radical lesbian feminist–and there was a messier reality that I tried to keep hidden, even from myself.

I was a trans person who spent most of my time with lesbians who didn’t believe trans people existed and didn’t want them to exist, who treated trans people as a threat to their own existence.

To participate in this community, I had to deny my own feelings, hide many of my thoughts, and distort much of my reality. I had to pretend that I wasn’t who I was every single day. There was no way to be a part of this group without engaging in constant deception. My social life depended on it. This is who I was, and this is what my life was like when Herzog interviewed me.

On the day of the interview, before my phone call with her, I wrote in my journal:

“I have a phone interview with a journalist this afternoon. Should be interesting. Not totally sure I’m the person to do it because I’m having doubts if I really count as a detransitioned woman anymore. I detransitioned, that’s true. Am I sticking with that though? Did I just need to try out living as a woman because I didn’t get the chance to before? I don’t think I need to make anymore changes to my body. I’m also not sure I’d really be happy living full-time as a man. I probably am more in-between than anything but I have a lot of trouble accepting that. I don’t know why I’m like this but I’ve been this way for most of my life now. Able to see myself as a woman or a man. ”

I kept these feelings hidden just as I was hiding so much else. I was still very invested in the role I’d performed as a creator and representative of the detransitioned women’s community.

Once the interview actually happened, I found it easy to slip back into the role I’d perfected by that point. I’d given multiple workshops, written hundreds of pages of blog posts, made videos, and talked to numerous people about what it meant to be a detransitioned woman. I had my story down, and I knew which parts to emphasize. I believed in the story I was telling and thought I was doing important work.

I spoke not only for myself but for my community. Part of my job was to represent detransitioned women and make our stories visible to others. I had ideas I wanted to communicate, but I was largely focused on talking about my lived experience. I wanted other detransitioned women to know they weren’t alone. I wanted people to see that living as a detransitioned woman was possible, to make us seem like real people, not something theoretical or a scare story. I don’t think all my intentions were bad, and I do think greater visibility would help detrans people.

My intentions, however good, don’t change the fact that my understanding of myself was grounded in transphobic ideology and was a distortion of my own reality. I was telling the story I thought should be my truth, not actually describing my reality. There’s a lot I used to believe about my own life that I now see as a manifestation of self-hatred, and I worry about the impact my story could’ve had on other people.

In the article for The Stranger, Herzog, for instance, describes me as being merely sympathetic to radical feminism. In reality, I was far more of a radical feminist than I came off in the article, and I think Herzog inaccurately reflects the relationship between the detransitioned women’s community I belonged to and radical feminism. She mentions non-detrans radical feminists trying to use our stories, but she didn’t discuss how many detransitioned women themselves use their experiences to advance transphobic radical feminism. Many detrans women I knew were committed radical feminists who believed all trans identity was rooted in internalized misogyny and trauma. We didn’t like it when other radical feminists objectified us or treated us primarily as a way to win arguments with trans people, but we shared many of their views and political goals.

The way Herzog described my politics and the relationship between the detransitioned women’s community and radical feminism is partially a result of how I represented myself when she interviewed me. As I’ve discussed elsewhere, I intentionally moderated my views when talking to most people outside of the radical feminist subculture I belonged to. My views were in the process of changing, and I had gotten a lot more open-minded about transitioning and trans people. At the same time, I was still hanging out with self-identified TERFs, and I held a lot of transphobic beliefs.

I can’t imagine that I was entirely forthright with all my views. I focused largely on promoting the idea that trans identity and transitioning could be a manifestation of trauma, dissociation, and internalized misogyny, and I used my story as a way to demonstrate that. I framed what I was doing as working for detransitioned, re-identified, and dysphoric women instead of against trans people. I didn’t see myself as being dishonest when I hid my more extreme views, I saw myself as being practical. I saw most people as being unready for “the truth,” and there were serious consequences to openly calling into question the entire notion of trans identity, and I wanted to avoid that.

I presented Herzog with a more moderate version of my detrans radical feminist persona, completely omitting my more transphobic views and my connections to anti-trans lesbian feminists as well as my raging dysphoria and my disappointment with womanhood. I slipped into the character I’d perfected and forgot about the feelings and doubts I struggled with. I put the well-being of the detrans women’s community ahead of describing the real details of my life. I didn’t even feel like a woman when I gave that interview, but I felt like I had to be one anyways or I would be letting down my whole community.

The story I told to The Stranger was a fabrication, one that I believed in and fought for. It was a story I got trapped in for years, one that swallowed up my actual life. I can’t say it’s entirely false–after all, it includes events from life that did indeed happen, but I don’t believe in this story anymore, and I don’t want it overshadowing my life. It confined and trapped me for years, and I’m concerned about the impact that it had on others.

I’m concerned the story I told could’ve led other trans people to deny or distort themselves. I fear that it encouraged cis people to dismiss trans peoples’ identities or reinforced their transphobia. I was a trans person with a distorted view of myself, magnifying that and projecting it into the larger culture, inflicting my own wounds on other trans people. I am deeply sorry for any suffering I have caused others. I am sorry for participating in transphobic subcultures and engaging in what I now see as noxious and hateful behavior.

I can’t change the past, but I can describe what my life was actually like at the time and make visible the parts I left out or hid. I want people to know that detransitioning didn’t work for me, that it stopped working for me even as I was presenting myself as if it had. I want people to know that I belonged to transphobic communities that encouraged me to deceive myself and others. I want people to know that journalists can be fooled when they hear a story that lines up with what they may be expecting to find. So many people who question trans identities take the stories of detrans people  at face value, never considering that there could be more to them than meets the eye.

I’m a trans person who converted to a transphobic ideology, surrounded myself with transphobic people and worked against my own people. I struggle with grief and regret over many of the choices I’ve made.

I commit myself now to be as honest as I can be. I can’t know how my views, feelings, and perspectives will change over time but I can do my best to represent my life and my beliefs as openly and clearly as possible.

Writing about that particular time in my past is difficult because I had a lot of contradictory parts and impulses pulling me in different directions. I can remember what it was like, but I worry others will find my descriptions of it confusing. That time in my life was confusing to live through,  and it’s surreal to look back on. I read my old journals and can’t imagine that I shared many of these thoughts and feelings with the lesbians I was friends with. I didn’t even share most of them with my partner at the time. I knew I kept a lot from other people, but it’s intense to realize just how much.

At the same time, it’s a relief to write about this now. Back then, I existed in so many different pieces. I can finally bring all the parts together, connect them to create a more honest description of my past, and make myself whole. 

The Stranger

Hunts’s shop is a brightly colored bibliophile’s paradise.

by Lindsey Anderson

When Charlie’s Queer Books opened its bright pink doors for the first time in November 2023, the Fremont shop, which exclusively sells books by and about LGBTQ+ people, almost instantly became a staple in Seattle’s queer community and beyond. The shop, founded by Charlie Hunts, is just one of less than a dozen exclusively LGBTQ+ bookstores currently operating in the US.

Hunts first came up with the idea for an all-LGBTQ+ bookstore 12 years ago after a devastating injury left him bedridden for a year and unable to return to his previous job with Harley-Davidson. He found solace in literature. “I fell in love with books and decided to return to school,” he said. “I got my degree in English and later got my MBA.”

Hunts started working in print and marketing and began collecting every LGBTQ+ book that crossed his desk. As a trans man himself, he was especially interested in books that centered on trans characters. “I was building my collection amid all these anti-trans and anti-LGBTQ bills, as well as the combo of all the book bans,” he recalled. “I felt like this was something I could contribute, so I decided to test the waters.”

The first iteration of Charlie’s Queer Books hit the streets of Seattle last summer as a mobile store, a flashy, disco-tiled book cart that Hunts pushed around town. Hunts took the cart to Pride in the Park, PrideFest, and even wheeled it down the streets in the Seattle Pride Parade. Seattle’s many book-obsessed queers could not get enough. “There was such an outpouring of support and enthusiasm behind it that we decided to open up a brick-and-mortar in Fremont,” Hunts said.

“There aren’t many third places for queer people that aren’t around alcohol,” Hunts added. “This bookstore can serve as that third place if you just want a space to hang out during the day if you don’t drink, if you are under 21, or if you just like going to sleep early.”

In the running for Cutest Bookshop in Seattle. Brooke Fitts

Hunts’s shop is a brightly colored bibliophile’s paradise. His wife, Madeline Burchard, documents the kaleidoscope of queer books on their official Instagram account: @charliesqueerbooks. The exterior looks like a playful children’s drawing of a house with whimsical colors and mismatched window trim. The interior boasts a vibrant palette of pinks and blues, lots of natural light, and happy banners that say things like “You belong here” and “Being gay is so fun” hanging on the walls. Books are assorted by genre and age demographic and categorized with little flags so readers know exactly what identities are featured—it feels welcoming and magical. There is truly something for everyone, from the cozy children’s reading corner to the wall of LGBTQ+ stickers to the gift section, complete with totes, T-shirts, socks, and accessories.

Charlie’s also hosts events including cookie decorating, shitty craft nights, bisexual comedy showcases, drag performances, and release parties with visiting authors. Local author Ray Stoeve participated in their first in-person book launch at Charlie’s in May. After walking into the store, they were amazed by the queer utopia tucked inside the little pink shop.

“Charlie, Madeline, and their booksellers created such a welcoming space for everyone to come together and celebrate The Summer Love Strategy,” Stoeve said. “Supporting queer spaces is important to me, so I knew as soon as Charlie’s found a physical location that I wanted to have my launch there. Being able to launch my book in a queer-centered space made me feel seen and connected to our community.”

Pride Month will be Charlie’s busiest month yet. Every day in June brings a new LGBTQ+ event and Hunts is most excited about the Queer Book Fair on June 15. “We’re trying to help people chase that Scholastic Book Fair high,” he said with a smile. The event will include local vendors, authors, workshops, and all the fun trinkets kids could only get at a 2000’s Scholastic Book Fair.

Still, Hunts is also keenly aware of the danger that comes with increasing the store’s visibility. He knew there was a risk in opening a queer bookstore, especially in a year where national book bans, particularly those that center on LGBTQ+ topics, are becoming more common. In April, Axios reported that book bans have increased 65% compared to 2023 and, of the more than 4,200 books targeted, the majority “continue to be those centered on LGBTQ experiences and people of color.” Due to safety concerns, Hunts invested in specially coated glass windows and high-tech security cameras. He was also intentional about the events he scheduled during the shop’s early days.

“That was on purpose—to let ourselves get our first six months under us before we started doing things like drag story time or putting ourselves out there, just so we could get our footing first,” Hunts explained. “Even though we’re in a state like Washington, not all of Washington is Seattle. Even in Seattle, we’ve certainly had our issues. When we were looking at different locations, we were told explicitly not to be in Green Lake by people who live there.”

As he prepares for the store’s first drag queen story hour with delicious local legend Glam Chowder, Hunts is looking into the best ways to ensure safety for everyone involved. Recently, he spoke with the organizers of Drag Queen Story Hour, a 501c3 nonprofit that organizes family-friendly events around the world. “[They] said that this year, in their official events alone, they have seen one bomb threat a week at bookstores,” said Hunts. “Their threats are all the same. They’re in a template. They changed the bookstore and its owner. It’s emailed directly to the cops. We don’t even get a say in whether we respond or not. It’s very organized.”

Hunts says he’s not afraid. He finds security in his community. “I’m a trans man. I was scared for a long time because I only got stories of Matthew Shepard or Brandon Teena, who were killed for their queerness,” he said. “Growing up in Arizona, I didn’t get to see stories that were about queer joy, queer love, or other ways of being a trans person in the world.” Seeing people like him get to be the hero in their story has given Hunts strength, and with each book, he’s passing that strength on to the rest of the community. 

“We’ve had people brought to tears in our kids’ nook because they wish they had those stories when they were kids, or they find them just so healing,” he said. “People thank us every day for existing. That’s bittersweet. It’s the reason we exist. It’s the reason we do the work. It also shows what we’re up against in this moment.”

For Hunts, the risk is worth the reward. “What folks have to deal with is so much more than what we have to deal with at the store,” he said. “My concern is only to keep our customers safe. Beyond that, [the pushback] just makes me want to do it even more. We have to be here.”

Visit Charlie’s Queer Books at 465 N 26th St in Fremont Wed–Sat 11 am–7 pm and Sun 11 am–5 pm. See their full list of pride events at charliesqueerbooks.com.

The Stranger

It’s The Stranger’s 2024 Queer Issue!

by Vivian McCall

The first time I imagined the future, I was a seven-year-old boy sitting on an airplane, thumbing through the pages of a kid’s science magazine. Inside, the writers offered a glimpse of what life would be like when I was 40. Their world had flying cars, medicines that healed wounds instantaneously, robots, and, inexplicably, bodysuits. No futuristic vision is complete without rubbery, skin-tight clothing. I totally believed them, but now, 11 years away from my 40th birthday, I’m seriously doubting much of that vision will come true.

But that’s fine. The writers didn’t say “being gay would be cooler now” or “new generations are living gayer lives” or “The L Word will return,” either. As I turned out to be a woman who writes about gay people for an alt-weekly, I’ll take this alternative.

Gay and trans people talk about the future a lot, but they talk about the more immediate future with great concern. Why wouldn’t they? Authoritarian-minded freaks are introducing anti-LGBTQ bills in every legislature in every state in this country. They’re crusading against drag and trans rights and probably coming for marriage. The Supreme Court doesn’t exactly fill me with hope. The election looks bad. It bums me out.

But queer people didn’t get where we are today because people were cool about us. When the first Seattle Pride parade marched 50 years ago, the cops were still raiding bars. (Though if the events in January told us anything, it’s that old habits are hard to break.) AIDS would’ve killed even more people if activists hadn’t come up with safer sex practices and bullied the government into caring. I do not believe the arc of history bends toward justice, but I do think we’ve won too much ground in the American court of public opinion to live in the shadows ever again. However hard the reactionary far-right tries, they’ve lost. Their efforts will only create temporary setbacks.

So when I imagine the future at 29, it looks pretty good and very gay. (Too bad about flying cars though, which probably won’t happen—and that’s probably for the best.) 

Given Seattle Pride’s 50th anniversary, in our first print Queer Issue since COVID-19, The Stranger decided to focus on that future rather than dwell on our past.

Adam Willems explores the future of Seattle’s drag scene with local queens Betty Wetter, Lavish The’Jewel, and This Girl. Musician SassyBlack writes about finding her superpowers in her own Black, queer intergalactic universe. Nathalie Graham picks up pom-poms and learns to fly with Cheer Seattle. Lindsay Anderson profiles Charlie’s Queer Bookstore, a shop that almost exclusively stocks books by and about queer people. Rich Smith asks queer luminaries to divine the future of Capitol Hill. He also writes about Dave Upthegrove’s campaign to become the first gay state executive, while Hannah Krieg reveals the limitations of representation in her piece on the gays who have slayed us and the gays who have betrayed us. 

Also, a trans tech worker, a trans powerlifter, a trans comedian, a trans writer, and a trans musician tell their past selves how much better the future is. Ky Schevers comes clean about misrepresenting himself when The Stranger interviewed him for 2017’s “The Detransitioners: They Were Transgender, Until They Weren’t.” And I wrote about what’s next for Denny Blaine, the future of HIV medication, and protections for trans athletes in Washington.

Plus, check out our calendar for all the gay shit happening this month.

Happy Pride! Don’t let the fuckers get you down!

Vivian McCall, Staff Writer and a Queer Issue Editor 

Cover illustration by Lara Kaminoff/Design by Corianton Hale

Can Seattle Drag Afford to Stay Weird?

Rising Costs, and Fewer Beginner-Friendly Venues, Are Sanitizing Seattle’s Drag Scene

Letters to Our Younger Trans Selves

What We Wish We Knew

The Future of HIV Treatment Is Injectable

Promising Drugs Could Expand Treatment—If We Get Out of Our Own Way

What’s Next for Denny Blaine?

Maybe New Rules, but Certainly Fewer Thorns

Out of This World

Forming the SassyBlack Universe

The Books of Love

Charlie’s Queer Books Is a Welcoming Space for Seattle’s LGBTQ+ Lit Nerds

Dave Upthegrove Wants to Save the Trees

…And Become Washington State’s First Gay Executive While He’s at It

The Gays Who Slayed and the Gays Who Betrayed

Not Every Queer Politician Is an “Ally”

The Futures of Seattle’s Gayborhood

An Architect, an Urban Planner, a Documentarian, an Academic, and a Business Owner Imagine What Capitol Hill Will Look Like in 50 Years

What Do New Title IX Rules Mean for Washington’s Trans Athletes?

State Law Protects Them, but Title IX Protections Would Be Cool

Getting High with Cheer Seattle

A Very Queer Edition of Nathalie Graham’s ‘Play Date’ Column

The Reality Behind the Story I Told The Stranger

I Said I Was Detrans, but Really I Was Struggling

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The Stranger’s morning news roundup.

by Vivian McCall

Seems a little cozy: In private group chats with Seattle Police Department leaders, Federal Monitor Antonio Oftelie (the person in charge of federal oversight to the department) described a disconnect between what the apparently ignorant public wanted to see from the department (accountability) and the “systemic learning” he wanted to see (no accountability but somehow things get better?). He also replied “Sigh 😖” to a Seattle Times article about a former SPD detective’s tort claims of racial and sexual harassment. The Department of Justice declined to say whether or not these conversations with SPD’s Chief Legal Counsel Rebecca Boatright, Chief Operating Officer Brian Maxey, and former SPD Chief Strategy Officer were appropriate. Ashley has more here.

Now to Hannah with news from the fetid chambers of City Council…

Humiliation works: Council Member Maritza Rivera got her ass handed to her in the last week when dozens of BIPOC organizations called her amendment to gut funding to their Equitable Development Initiative (EDI) capital projects “racist,” “discriminatory,” and “appalling” for three-and-a-half hours straight. The backlash prompted the council to delay the routine, technical “carry forward” bill. This week, she learned her lesson—at least partially. Rivera did not reintroduce the amendment, and the underlying legislation passed, but she doubled down on her point that her amendment wasn’t actually a threat to BIPOC capital projects, and that all the organizers who came out against it are actually victims of disinformation.

There’s been a whole lot of talk about disinformation today, let’s break it down what’s true and what’s false 🧵

— Puget Sound Sage (@PugetSoundSage) June 5, 2024

Rivera made enemies: I don’t think insulting the intelligence of BIPOC organizers will win you any favor, Rivera, but it appears the damage is done. Anti-displacement organizations including Puget Sound Sage, Africatown Community Land Trust, and El Centro de la Raza held a press conference at City Hall Tuesday morning demanding that the Mayor and the City Council protect EDI, the JumpStart payroll tax, and to find new progressive revenue so other important programs do not face a similar fate while the City tries to balance the budget with a quarter-billion-dollar deficit.

Kent didn’t sweep the migrants: The King County Sheriff’s Office said it wouldn’t help the city sweep the encampment, and the City said it wasn’t going to sweep on land it didn’t own, so the sweep didn’t happen: 

No sweep today! pic.twitter.com/YwaJoDvfvy

— Hannah Krieg (@hannahkrieg) June 4, 2024

Back to me!

New unions are born <3: Workers at the 7th and Westlake store filed for election with the National Labor Relations Board Tuesday, along with workers at 17 other US locations. The filings come days after Starbucks Workers United wrapped a second round of national bargaining with the company. The union says it made significant progress toward establishing a foundational framework for store contracts. 

.@SBWorkersUnited says another Starbucks in Seattle has filed for an union election & significant progress is being made regarding contract negotiations pic.twitter.com/jFYeh8xWRk

— Lilly Ana Fowler (@LillyAFowler) June 4, 2024

Recent WSU grad goes missing at Sea-Tac: KING 5 reports 21-year-old Nadia Erika Cole of Port Angeles was last seen leaving the airport at 3 pm on May 29. She wore a black North Face jacket, sage hoodie, black yoga pants, white converse, and carried a tan shoulder bag. If authorities know what may have happened, they’re not saying. Authorities in Fife say she “may” have been seen there after she left Sea-Tac.

Stealing doesn’t pay, kids: A federal jury awarded $81 million in damages to the founders of the failed electric airplane startup Zunum last week after ruling that Boeing stole their technology. Back in 2017, Washington and Boeing invested in an ambitious plan from Zunum to design a hybrid-electric aircraft for short city-to-city flights. The company spent $282,000 of our tax dollars, never built an airplane, and fell apart. Zunum alleged Boeing had engineered its collapse to access its trade secrets and build an electric airplane of its own. Because the jury found Boeing’s actions were “willful and malicious,” the judge could triple the damages. 

Great, we’re trying to sanction the ICC now? Nearly every House Republican and some Democrats voted to sanction the International Criminal Court over potential arrest warrants for Israel’s Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and other Israeli officials for war crimes. It’s unlikely to go far because even though Biden called the ICC’s indictments “outrageous,” he doesn’t support this.

Israel targeted US lawmakers with an influence campaign: According to officials who spoke to the New York Times, Israel’s Ministry of Diaspora Affairs organized a $2 million social media campaign last year to convince American lawmakers and the public to support the war in Gaza. Last October, the Israeli government began posting ChatGPT-generated, pro-Israel comments from hundreds of fake accounts on X, Facebook, and Instagram.

Evanston, Illinois sued for paying reparations: In 2021, the Chicago suburb’s city council voted to create the first government-funded reparations program in the country. The program paid Black residents with family ties to Evanston between 1919 and 1969 (or those who’d experienced housing discrimination since) up to $25,000 each. Last week, the conservative advocacy group Judicial Watch filed a class-action lawsuit claiming reverse racism. The six members of the class-action suit claim they’d be eligible for $25,000 in reparations if not for a “race-based eligibility requirement.” I’d say they’re eligible to get a fucking grip.

F-: Any student knows to turn in their assignments or else fail, which is sort of what happened this week to Keith Posley, the Superintendent of Milwaukee Public Schools. He forgot to submit essential financial reports to the state, threatening millions of dollars in funding for the largest district in Wisconsin. He resigned the day after a public meeting where more than 100 freaked parents and teachers said they wanted him gone. His last day is June 29. I’ll be surprised if they don’t chase him away with pitchforks.

Way too hot: A sweltering heat wave is melting portions of the West. Temperatures from Texas to Nevada to California are soaring to over 100 degrees. Yesterday, Texas cities San Antonio, Abilene, Del Rio and San Angelo neared records. Phoenix could break them, which is really saying something if you’ve ever been to Phoenix. Such heat can be fatal. Even normally hot places struggle to handle it. In Maricopa County, where Phoenix is located, nearly 650 people died of heat-related illness last year, a 52% increase over 2022. About 32 million people are on alert for life-threatening temperatures today.

It’s a no: Scientific advisors to the FDA voted 10-1 against recommending that the regulator approve MDMA (aka ecstasy and molly) to treat post-traumatic stress disorder. The panel focused on a supposedly murky or tainted dataset from a recent clinical trial that left more questions than answers about the drug’s effectiveness and safety. The Institute for Clinical and Economic Review and the American Psychological Association also found there was insufficient evidence to support MDMA’s therapeutic application. The FDA doesn’t have to take the panel’s advice (but it usually does and probably will) and will make a final call in August. 

Pipe dream: Pissing in American cities sucks, but New York is attempting to make it better. Mayor Eric Adams announced a plan to build 46 new public restrooms, renovate 36 existing halls of relief, and release a new Google Maps layer indicating where they all are. They call the plan “Ur in Luck.” Charming. (Years before the city launched this initiative, New Yorker Teddy Siegel created got2gonyc, an incredible map of 2,000 such facilities).

And George Costanza will create an app called iToilet rating the best public bathrooms and make a fortune… pic.twitter.com/VOZE2vBeYo

— jellin76💙🟧🟦patriotism=caring about others (@jellin76) June 4, 2024

The Stranger

SPD policy allows officers to use force, such as hitting, punching, knee strikes, and batons in order to arrest someone as long as officers use necessary and proportional force. Officers may not kneel on a person’s neck, though it’s unclear if that’s what happened in this video.

by Ashley Nerbovig

On May 31 a person riding the Route 7 bus southbound shot a video of two Seattle Police Department officers forcing a man to his stomach by punching him, kneeing him, and hitting him three to five times with a baton. The video appears to show both officers kneeling on the man. At one point, one officer’s knee appears pinned right on or near the man’s neck. The video does not show what led up to the incident, though officers did arrest the man for felony arson.

Deeanthony Marcell took the video at about 1:30 pm May 31 as the bus slowed down to pass the incident. The King County Metro bus operator also reported to dispatch that he saw police fighting with someone, and that their cop cars had partially blocked the road. 

Link to video.

Marcell said that as the bus drove past the stop on Rainier Avenue South and Andover Street, he saw two SPD officers struggling with a man. “Before I pulled my phone out they were already beating him bad, I think he might have even got slammed,” Marcell said. 

Marcell captured the rest of the incident in a video posted to Instagram. Throughout the video, the man appears to mostly just be resisting officers by tensing his arms, but he does not appear to be actively fighting with officers. 

After the officers forced the man to his stomach, they appeared to start putting him in handcuffs. The man on the ground yelled “police brutality” at one point, and he kept yelling throughout the arrest until a few seconds before the bus drove away. As the sergeant continued to kneel on him, the man went quiet. 

Marcell said the actions of officers looked excessive. 

SPD officers arrested the man for felony arson. According to the probable cause statement, King County Sheriff’s Deputies had previously evicted the man from a house located behind the bus stop, and he had returned after the eviction. The property owners called police after he allegedly hit one of them with a cane. The owner reported that the man had tried to set the house on fire by holding a lighter against the boards of the front porch and lighting sticks and pushing them through the building’s windows.

According to an SPD spokesperson, an officer’s note claims the man said that if anyone threw out his belongings, then he would hurt the cops. King County Prosecutors have yet to file charges against the man.

SPD has not identified either of the officers involved in the arrest, though the probable cause statement shows Officer Cody V. Alidon as the arresting officer. 

SPD policy allows officers to use force, such as hitting, punching, knee strikes, and batons in order to arrest someone as long as officers use necessary and proportional force. Officers may not kneel on a person’s neck, though it’s unclear if that’s what happened in this video. 

An SPD spokesperson said the department would have a statement Tuesday regarding the video, but they have not sent that along by the time of publication.

The Stranger

The police were repeatedly informed of a potential serial killer for years, but the department did next to nothing with the information.

by Charles Mudede

And so this is how Robert Pickton’s life ends. He was killed by an inmate at a maximum security prison in Quebec. The details of the attack, which happened on May 19, were revealed on the day he died (Friday, May 31) by Rick and Lynn Frey, the father and stepmother of one of Pickford’s confirmed victims, Marnie Frey.

Rick Frey to CTV News:

The guy that assaulted him stabbed him first with a toothbrush in the neck, and then he broke a broom handle… And when you break something like a broom handle, you always get a sharp end, and so he took the sharp end and he stuck it into his nose, up into his skull.

The family members are of the opinion that Pickton, who exited at age 74, surely suffered, but not nearly enough. Though convicted for killing six women, Pickton “had bragged about killing 49.”

Good riddance: Canadian serial killer Robert Pickton dies after prison assault
AT LEAST 65 women disappeared from Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside neighborhood in British Colombia between 1978-2001 before Pickton was arrested. Tip of the iceberg no doubt 1/3 https://t.co/eBurRsDPim pic.twitter.com/07LKa47jaK

— Laura Richards BSc, MSc, MBPsS (@laurarichards99) June 2, 2024

The identity of Pickton’s killer has not been made public, nor has the reason for the attack that resulted in a medically induced coma from which he did not recover. But such a violent end seems consistent with a character who had the nerve to write and publish a memoir that basically praised and exonerated himself, Pickton: In His Own Words. (Amazon distributed the book.)

“Good riddance,” wrote BC Premier David Eby in an official statement. But we can’t just leave it at that. It’s way too easy to fix all of the blame on Pickton, who, incidentally, was “eligible for day parole… and full parole in 2027.” The reason he was able to kill so many women between the mid-’90s and early ’00s is found in the fact of their class (mostly poor) and race (often Indigenous). Indeed, the police were repeatedly informed of a potential serial killer in Vancouver’s Downtown Eastside (a neighborhood with a famously bad reputation), but the department did next to nothing with the information. This went on for four years. Pickton brazenly picked up women, killed them with a knife, and then fed them to the pigs at his farm in Port Coquitlam, a suburb between Burnaby, BC, and the Pitt River. After his arrest in 2002 (at that point the evidence was too overwhelming), the police excavated the farm and found the remains and DNA of 33 women.

Royal Canadian Mounted Police investigators move debris on Robert Pickton’s pig farm February 19, 2002 in Port Coquitlam, British Columbia. Don MacKinnon / Stringer

I saw and wrote about this excavation in 2003. Few nightmares could match its scale and location. All that mud and dung, the haunted barn, the grim roof of the house, the cold rain, the clanking conveyor belts, the men and women searching for bones, hair, and clothes, and the surrounding suburban developments.

From my article “Death Farm“:

Construction presses in along the border of the pig farm. The developers are still building and selling townhouses. One real-estate agent told me that the value of the homes near the farm have not decreased but increased. A house along Dominion Avenue goes for around $300,000 Canadian dollars—roughly $230,000 American. The developers want Pickton’s land, and a memorial to sex-trade workers and drug addicts who were murdered in the heart of this thriving suburban area just won’t do.

Many of those houses are now worth more than a million dollars

What you almost never find in Hollywood movies about fictional serial killers is an economic background that’s remotely realistic. The victims are not at all like Pickton’s or, for that matter, Gary Ridgway’s. And there’s a good reason for the absence of the obvious class factor. The public is not interested in the down and out. Who cares if you kill a drug addict or a woman of color? This common attitude of indifference and even hostility must not be dissociated with the way we treat the homeless in Seattle, Vancouver, and other North American cities.

The Stranger

On the Magnum: Comedian Jared Goldstein

by The Stranger

Dan takes on a couple of heavy calls this week. A woman learned that her ex-boyfriend of eight years was convicted on child pornography charges. He will almost certainly go to prison. He was once her fiancé. Rough stuff.

Then, Dan helps a woman make the heart-breaking choice between a single or a double mastectomy.

Our guest this week is the sharp, hilarious comedian, Jared Goldstein. He and Dan talk about how gay men reject long-haired homos, how straight men don’t get “headaches,” and definitively answer whether dreams get weirder and kinkier as we age. A little is on the Micro, the whole thing is on the Magnum.

Finally, he’s dating a woman who isn’t quite over her ex. And her ex is the caller’s boss. And the ex is a super-hot guy who hunts caribou. He was “like a drug” to his girlfriend. How can the caller ever hope to compete?

Follow Jared Goldstein on Instagram and Threads @heyjaredhey

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